1. WHY IS MISSING E STILL DRUNK

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  3. I see people partnering the new Q with James bond

    Does EVERYTHING on tumblr have to turn into Homosexual shipping?

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  4. morgphine-drip:

starborn-vagabond:

imjohnlocked:

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princessnecrophilia:

weeaboo-chan:

vhscars:

protest-resources:

50 Shades of Abuse Flyer - Canada
Use, redistribute, print. 
Click image and magnify for large version.

Okay. I understood all the flack Twilight got for being an abusive relationship. Because it was and it was being read by a very young and impressionable audience. But ffs, 50 Shades is an ADULT NOVEL. Iit is about a BDSM couple. Which - newsflash - do exist. It is a completely consensual form of dominate/submissive sex play. The whole concept of domestic violence and abuse is that one side exerts control over an unwilling victim. I don’t recall Anastasia, or whatever she’s called, protesting to Christian’s form of sex. If I remember correctly, she quite enjoyed it! So before you condemn a work of romanticized fiction, actually consider it’s audience and remember that they are mature and capable enough to know the difference between reality and fiction.

so i guess you didn’t read the parts where he coerces her and the part where he continues after she has used her safeword and acts like a fucking creep whenever they aren’t having sex
it is the worst possible introduction to BDSM i could imagine
i know my shit okay

im hoping the people defending this book are 1. never getting into BDSM 2. not currently into BDSM 3. havent read the book bc i dont want to believe anyone is that fucking stupid

Let me
just
fucking
drop
some fucking
knowledge on you right now.
Wanna know the BDSM mantra? Safe, sane, consensual.
So let me explain why this book was devoid of all three of these things.
Safe - In the first few chapters of the novel, Christian Grey tracks Ana’s cell phone to find her at a club. Takes her home when she’s drunk, changes her when she’s so intoxicated she doesn’t remember him doing so,and informs her he will be keeping tabs on her for her own benefit. This is not the behaviour of a respectable Dominant. This is the behaviour of a power hungry, abusive asshole who really can’t take no for an answer.
Sane - One of the most important parts of BDSM is aftercare. Scenes can be extremely traumatizing and intense for the submissive. Aftercare is anything from petting to cuddling to holding to sweet talking, whatever degree of gentleness a bottom would need to pull them out of “subspace”. How does Christian provide aftercare? He submits Ana to a traumatizing first time spanking experience AND THEN FUCKING LEAVES. AND GETS MAD THAT SHE DIDN’T TELL HIM SHE WAS UPSET. He’s the one who should fucking know better! That, again, is not the act of a responsible Dominant. It’s the act of a selfish abuser.
Consensual - Did I mention he undressed her when she was belligerently drunk? Tracked her phone to locate her? He also buys her a new car despite her saying no countless times. Now, consent is important for any kind of sexual activity at all. Consent means informed, consent means enthusiastic. Informed, enthusiastic consent. This is crucial in a BDSM setting. Scenes can be extremely intense, especially for the bottom. What is Christian’s form of obtaining consent? Handing Ana a fucking contract highlighting all the things he wants to do her asshole and asking her to sign it. She was a virgin (Don’t even get me fucking started.) who had never before been exposed to BDSM. Entering in that kind of relationship takes a gargantuan amount of trust and knowledge so you know exactly what you’re getting into. Not reading a list of kinks on a piece of paper and signing your rights to say no away. Christian didn’t offer her resources, he didn’t offer her information. He gave her an ultimatum. That is not the sort of consent a responsible Dom/me would seek from their submissive.
Fuck. This. book. It’s written in a shitty way, it’s a terrible example of a BDSM relationship (ask anybody already involved in the lifestyle and watch them go blue in the face just thinking about it), which is already faced with enough prejudice and misunderstand, and it romanticizes and glorifies abuse.

^I’m just going to stand up for this and clap

THIS A THOUSAND TIMES OVER

THHHAAAANNNKK YOOOUUUU

    morgphine-drip:

    starborn-vagabond:

    imjohnlocked:

    bonerack:

    princessnecrophilia:

    weeaboo-chan:

    vhscars:

    protest-resources:

    50 Shades of Abuse Flyer - Canada

    Use, redistribute, print. 

    Click image and magnify for large version.

    Okay. I understood all the flack Twilight got for being an abusive relationship. Because it was and it was being read by a very young and impressionable audience. But ffs, 50 Shades is an ADULT NOVEL. Iit is about a BDSM couple. Which - newsflash - do exist. It is a completely consensual form of dominate/submissive sex play. The whole concept of domestic violence and abuse is that one side exerts control over an unwilling victim. I don’t recall Anastasia, or whatever she’s called, protesting to Christian’s form of sex. If I remember correctly, she quite enjoyed it! So before you condemn a work of romanticized fiction, actually consider it’s audience and remember that they are mature and capable enough to know the difference between reality and fiction.

    so i guess you didn’t read the parts where he coerces her and the part where he continues after she has used her safeword and acts like a fucking creep whenever they aren’t having sex

    it is the worst possible introduction to BDSM i could imagine

    i know my shit okay

    im hoping the people defending this book are 1. never getting into BDSM 2. not currently into BDSM 3. havent read the book bc i dont want to believe anyone is that fucking stupid

    Let me

    just

    fucking

    drop

    some fucking

    knowledge on you right now.

    Wanna know the BDSM mantra? Safe, sane, consensual.

    So let me explain why this book was devoid of all three of these things.

    Safe - In the first few chapters of the novel, Christian Grey tracks Ana’s cell phone to find her at a club. Takes her home when she’s drunk, changes her when she’s so intoxicated she doesn’t remember him doing so,and informs her he will be keeping tabs on her for her own benefit. This is not the behaviour of a respectable Dominant. This is the behaviour of a power hungry, abusive asshole who really can’t take no for an answer.

    Sane - One of the most important parts of BDSM is aftercare. Scenes can be extremely traumatizing and intense for the submissive. Aftercare is anything from petting to cuddling to holding to sweet talking, whatever degree of gentleness a bottom would need to pull them out of “subspace”. How does Christian provide aftercare? He submits Ana to a traumatizing first time spanking experience AND THEN FUCKING LEAVES. AND GETS MAD THAT SHE DIDN’T TELL HIM SHE WAS UPSET. He’s the one who should fucking know better! That, again, is not the act of a responsible Dominant. It’s the act of a selfish abuser.

    Consensual - Did I mention he undressed her when she was belligerently drunk? Tracked her phone to locate her? He also buys her a new car despite her saying no countless times. Now, consent is important for any kind of sexual activity at all. Consent means informed, consent means enthusiastic. Informed, enthusiastic consent. This is crucial in a BDSM setting. Scenes can be extremely intense, especially for the bottom. What is Christian’s form of obtaining consent? Handing Ana a fucking contract highlighting all the things he wants to do her asshole and asking her to sign it. She was a virgin (Don’t even get me fucking started.) who had never before been exposed to BDSM. Entering in that kind of relationship takes a gargantuan amount of trust and knowledge so you know exactly what you’re getting into. Not reading a list of kinks on a piece of paper and signing your rights to say no away. Christian didn’t offer her resources, he didn’t offer her information. He gave her an ultimatum. That is not the sort of consent a responsible Dom/me would seek from their submissive.

    Fuck. This. book. It’s written in a shitty way, it’s a terrible example of a BDSM relationship (ask anybody already involved in the lifestyle and watch them go blue in the face just thinking about it), which is already faced with enough prejudice and misunderstand, and it romanticizes and glorifies abuse.

    ^I’m just going to stand up for this and clap

    THIS A THOUSAND TIMES OVER

    THHHAAAANNNKK YOOOUUUU

    (via tinyneedleteeth)

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  5. Send me a number?

    1: Could you go the rest of your life without smoking a cigarette?

    2: Are you single/taken/heartbroken/confused?

    3: What if I told you that you were pretty?

    4: Ever been told “it’s not you, it’s me”?

    5: Are you interested in anyone right now?

    6: What are you looking forward to in the next week?

    7: Do you want to be single?

    8: Did you go out or stay in last night?

    9: How late did you stay up last night?

    10: Can you recall the last time you realized you liked someone a lot?

    11: Last three things you had to drink?

    12: Have you pretended to like someone?

    13: Have you ever told somebody you loved them and not actually meant it?

    14: Honestly, has anyone seen you in your underwear in the past 3 months?

    15: Is it hard for you to get over someone?

    16: Think back five months ago, were you single?

    17: What were you doing at 12:30 this afternoon?

    18: Hold hands with anyone this week?

    19: Could you go for the rest of your life without drinking alcohol?

    20: What would you name your future daughter?

    21: Do you miss anyone?

    22: Have you kissed three or more people in one night?

    23: Did your last kiss take place in/on a bed?

    24: Are you good at hiding your feelings?

    25: Have you ever cried from being so mad?

    26: Who did you last see in person?

    27: Are you listening to music right now?

    28: What is something you currently want right now?

    29: What is the last thing you said out lot?

    30: How is your heart lately?

    31: Do you wear the hood on your hoodie?

    32: Are you wearing socks?

    33: What do people call you?

    34: Will you talk to the person you like tonight?

    35: Are there any stressful situations in your life?

    36: Who did you last share a bed with?

    37: Did you do something bad today?

    38: When was the last time a member of the opposite sex hugged you?

    39: Do you get stressed out easily?

    40: Will you sing today?

    41: Have you ever wanted to tell someone something but didn’t?

    42: Who do you go to when you need to talk to someone?

    43: Have you ever been taken to the emergency room in an ambulance?

    44: What are you listening to right now?

    45: What is wrong with you right now?

    46: What is on your wrists right now?

    47: Where did you get the shirt/sweatshirt you’re wearing?

    48: What do you like better: hot chocolate or hot apple cider?

    49: Do you make wishes at 11:11?

    50: Are you a good artist?

    51: Love really is a beautiful thing huh?

    52: Do you miss the way things were six months ago?

    53: Ever been on a golf cart?

    54: Do you have trust issues?

    55: Ever stayed up all night on the phone, with who?

    56: Do you own something from Hot Topic?

    57: Do you use chap stick?

    58: Have you ever slapped someone in the face?

    59: Do you have a little sister?

    60: Have you ever been to New York?

    61: Think of the last person who said I love you, do you think they meant it?

    62: Have you hugged someone within the last week?

    63: What were you doing at midnight last night?

    64: Have you ever regretted kissing someone?

    65: Is there one person in your life that can always make you smile?

    66: Were your last three kisses from the same person?

    67: Have you kissed anyone in the last five days?

    68: Would you rather sleep with someone else or alone?

    69: Will next Friday be a good one?

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  9. The people behind me were having a conversation about how Human’s were supposed to be vegetarians and that we used to live for 250 years until we started eating meat.

    I’m

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